Welcome to Episode 84 of Kultivation w/ Kevie!
In this vulnerable and empowering solo episode, I open up about something we’ve all felt at one point or another — the sting of being unfollowed. Whether it’s a friend, an acquaintance, or a total stranger, seeing that number drop can feel personal, even when logic tells us it isn’t.
In this episode, I unpack why unfollows happen and how easily our self-worth can become entangled with numbers, visibility, and perceived approval. I talk honestly about my own reactions, the emotional spirals that can follow, and the mindset shifts that helped me detach my value from external validation.
I also explore why alignment matters more than being liked by everyone. Letting go doesn’t mean you’re losing relevance — it often means you’re growing into a version of yourself that no longer resonates with everyone, and that’s okay. I share reframes and affirmations that remind us our purpose, voice, and impact aren’t determined by who stays or leaves.
If you’ve ever questioned your worth after watching a follower count drop, this episode is for you. Your story still matters, your voice still carries weight, and your purpose can’t be unfollowed. You can listen to this episode in full on all major podcast platforms, including Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or stream it directly here on the blog.
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